Throwing Words Like Spears

Spears were a vital weapon in biblical times. One notable spear is that of Goliath. Being a big man, he carried a big spear, estimated to be 33 pounds, the spearhead alone is estimated at 16 pounds. While an average soldier carried one, averaging between 4 to 11 pounds. Can you imagine throwing something weighing 33 pounds?

Now let’s talk about the spear of Saul. Reading about his life, you will see his spear is at his ready. He never left home without it and even at home it was by his side. His spear was not only used for battle, but it was also used against those that cared for him.

1 Samuel 18, 19, and 20 records three accounts where Saul hurled his spear, twice at David and once at his son Jonathan. Each time he threw it; it was out of anger. Each time he threw it; it was meant to do harm. Each time he threw it; it did nothing to settle his own rage.

Today, there are some who, in the face of anger or rage, will pick up a weapon with the sole purpose of doing grave harm. However, the spears most often thrown are not made of wood and iron, but of words. Words that are at times spoken in secret with hope they never find daylight. Words thrown out during an argument because of anger, resentment, jealousy or even guilt. Then there is the group situation, where one person is speaking indirectly to another and makes a comment that is really meant for another in the room. Or how about the words that are followed by the phrase, “I’m only joking.”  Whatever the scenario, like a thrown spear, once the words are released you cannot take them back.

In 1 Samuel 26, David had the opportunity to use Saul’s own spear against him as Saul laid asleep in his encampment. Yet, David could not harm God’s anointed (1 Samuel 26:22-23). David had a choice. He chose righteousness and faithfulness.

Likewise, every day, we have a choice. Do we throw 33-pound words meant to do harm or remain quiet, speak words that encourage, build up, and if needed admonish. Above all may we keep in mind the words of David, “May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, O LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer” (Psalm 19:14). For our words and our thoughts do indicate who is controlling our life at that moment.

-written by Charles Jones, Redeemer Elder